Ok, Where do I start? Although the post and comments were helful, I do still have something that have been bugging me from the get-go. I dated her son in and we got married in
This is how it begins: Your guy pops the question and tells you that his family is just going to love you, especially his mom. You're the daughter she never had. You assume that means she's going to be supersupportive of all your choices, will offer help when you ask for it, but otherwise, stay out of your life and marriage.
Please refresh the page and retry. Despite her best intentions, it took Trent a few years to realise that her husband's mother, Liz, had other expectations of her. When she once found me dusting the picture rails, her comment was: 'I'm so pleased, but what really drives me mad is when you don't clear the breakfast table'.
For generations, South Asian women have been the victims of their critical and somewhat intrusive in-laws. But is the overbearing mother-in-law the only issue, or is the daughter-in-law a difficult breed to manage? DESIblitz finds out more.
I have been married for more than a year. After we got married, we moved in to stay with his parents, while waiting for our new house to be ready. My mother-in-law has been treating me very badly for the past year.
Mother-in-law jokes are the staple and cliched diet of comedians but they mask the real family battles between a woman and her daughter-in-law, according to new research that reveals the domestic conflict being waged between women with the husband and son somewhere in the middle. According to the study of hundreds of families over two decades, more than 60 per cent of women admitted the relationship with their female in-law caused them long-term unhappiness and stress. The behaviour ranged from that experienced by year-old Jenny from north London, whose mother-in-law began emailing her two months before her wedding with messages saying, 'What you don't realise is that my son thinks about me every day, every minute of the day, every second of every minute of the day', to more common behaviour, such as making demands, being critical or intrusive, sulking and eliciting pity.
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It could have been any other pile of clothing — pastel linen blouses, jeans with a flower pattern embroidered on the side, a silk robe in peacock blue, and more. And my Chinese mother-in-law was anxious to clear them away. It was a lonely pile of clothes, desperate to be worn.
Throughout her year-old marriage, Ms Kim said she has struggled with her work and life balance partly because of her mother-in-law, who insisted all the household chores, especially cooking, were a woman's job. As a nurse working at a general hospital, Ms Kim would often have full-length nightshifts and catch up on her sleep during the day. But whenever her mother-in-law saw her husband doing laundry or cleaning, she would get upset and make him stop.